I love letting the kid do what he wants. Let him do as He would like to. Let him solve it, let him "suffer" for the thing himself. It is such an experience when it is His success and not mine. From tiny little things to big ones. How important it is for me to intervene only when he asks me to, or if he is in danger. If he messes it up, then what happens?! We are allowed to make mistakes and we should. It comes with learning. He may be just inventing something new or learning that this is not how I will do it next time. And it could hurt. Yes, but I can't protect my kid from kicking his head. That is His life, His experiences.
Although I would hug him, hold him in my arms many times so that no harm would come to him, and he would feel no more pain. But I can't. I have to step back. And there is still the risk of a car accident or whatever because the world is like that now. This is now. But that should not stop us from living. From living really happily. It is said that when you get bucked off the horse, you must get back on, otherwise fear wins and captures. Once it happens, it can happen a second time. That's right. But the chance of the first was the same as of the second. Then why not live as relieved now as before. Only in a more rational way, appreciating life, learning from what I can, doing everything that is up to me.
"Soha ne aggódjatok hát a következő nap miatt,+ mert a következő napnak meglesznek a maga aggodalmai. Minden napnak elég a maga baja."Máté 6:34
Our whole life is a constant learning process. If that's it for me, why would I take this experience away from my son and give him ready-made solutions?! Why would I make things easier for him when more and more difficult situations await him?!
But he knows I'm there.
It is always a question in one's life whether one is humble enough about things.
What was 1 second yesterday, it may take up to 4 minutes today.
I love this little man. :)
Although I would hug him, hold him in my arms many times so that no harm would come to him, and he would feel no more pain. But I can't. I have to step back. And there is still the risk of a car accident or whatever because the world is like that now. This is now. But that should not stop us from living. From living really happily. It is said that when you get bucked off the horse, you must get back on, otherwise fear wins and captures. Once it happens, it can happen a second time. That's right. But the chance of the first was the same as of the second. Then why not live as relieved now as before. Only in a more rational way, appreciating life, learning from what I can, doing everything that is up to me.
"Soha ne aggódjatok hát a következő nap miatt,+ mert a következő napnak meglesznek a maga aggodalmai. Minden napnak elég a maga baja."Máté 6:34
Our whole life is a constant learning process. If that's it for me, why would I take this experience away from my son and give him ready-made solutions?! Why would I make things easier for him when more and more difficult situations await him?!
But he knows I'm there.
It is always a question in one's life whether one is humble enough about things.
What was 1 second yesterday, it may take up to 4 minutes today.
I love this little man. :)